Category: Church

  • Being Thankful…

    Today in chapel we had the privilege of hearing from Peter Brain, the recently retired Archbishop of Armidale, speaking on the topic of thankfulness. His brief message struck a chord with me, especially with the degree to which our society and culture is somewhat less than thankful for the things that we have.

    At the moment this is probably best seen with the Australian response to the Olympic medal haul, and the accusations that are flying around in response to the less than optimal results.

    All too often this sort of attitude pervades our churches and our Christian walk as well, rather than being thankful for even the little things that we do have in life. How much does the whinging and negativity of our world spill over and threaten to drown the church. How much would we, and our communities be changed by being thankful for what we have, even things as little as the sunset.

    In all of this I’m reminded of the power of being thankful, and of the transformative attitude which that brings. I don’t think I’ve seen it presented more clearly than in the life of Mary Karr, a poet and essayist. She writes:

    So Tom suggested that I start thanking God as I went through the day. And I said, ‘What are you talking about?’ He said, ‘Well, you know, if your car has a flat and somebody stops and helps you, just say thanks.’ I said, ‘That’s ridiculous.’ But again, over time I started doing it, and I found a kind of quiet core ‘south of my neck’ is the only way I can put it, where I began to get some sense of peace or certainty or clarity or quiet, just a kind of quiet.

    But all of a sudden it was almost like the world bloomed into being. I realised that I had been so focused on complaint for most of my life that I had just missed a lot of the good things that were going on. My world view, which I had thought of as so ‘realistic’ because I didn’t believe in God, was in fact very warped by a kind of naturally depressive state of mind. It’s almost like the world was black and white and it started to bleed into technicolour before my eyes.

    You can read more of her story here: http://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/encounter/unlikely-catholics-addiction-conversion-and-poetry/3255234 it is certainly a powerful testimony to God working through thankfulness.

    Personally its a challenge to me as well, all too often I find myself beset with a complaining spirit, rather than stopping to give thanks, and in talking to the people around me I don’t think I’m in any way unique in this.

    Perhaps we should all be stopping more often to give thanks in life, and how much of a difference would this make in our walk?

  • Words with friends…. how do we use language?

    This blog post is probably one of the more theologically oriented posts that will intersperse this blog, when I get a chance to think and write, and in this case it comes while im sitting on a plane between Melbourne and Singapore. It stems from a twitter discussion that I had with Jason Harris (@tojasonharris) during the Oxygen11 conference, on the topic, and has been fleshed out by a couple of shorter discussions with Arthur Davis (@arthurgdavis and blog) and others around college.

    I’m sure that everyone reading this would be familiar with the saying that a picture can convey a thousand words, although the linguistic corollary that a word may have a thousand meanings may be slightly more hazy to some out there. Yet despite it being somewhat less common, I think that intrinsically we all know it to be true. The wide range of meanings imbued within a word are readily apparent to even a young child in primary school being called a ‘nerd’ for the first time: What does it mean… i don’t even like Star Trek… i like books though; and the connotations rapidly progress onwards, like an avalanche tumbling down a mountain.

    However, it appears that the general populace is commonly less aware of the various methods that the nuances of language may be used to influence and even generate the opinions and populace of a wider community. While I was studying Psychology at the University of Adelaide, I came across the work of Dr Martha Augoustinos, including her paper on the different uses of discourse regarding people seeking refuge in Australia via non-standard seafaring methods. In a rough summary, some papers would refer to such people as the term ‘refugees’, which has a relatively positive meaning, while others would choose ‘boat people’, a relatively neutral descriptor, and yet other media would opt for negativistic language such as ‘illegal immigrants’. Unsurprisingly the discourse features that were chosen by each media outlet harmonised nicely with their own intended audience, and polemic. Each term describes the selected people, although all portray them in wildly differing lights.

    Ok, ok, I hear you cry, what relevance does this have to me? Fair question, and indeed one which I think needs addressing. For, I think, that even in the Church we have a tendency to place labels completely infused with meaning upon people, whether or not they completely endorse or embody all aspects of that label. Furthermore, as social psychology has tended to indicate, these labels are excellent tools for our psyche to orient our sense of in-group identification, and in correlation our out-group tendencies. Lets go for a quick hypothetical example:

    Bob is living in Sydney, he is a strong Christian, and has been studying the bible for most of his life, he works in the city and all around him he finds that there are strong women who are in various positions of leadership. Through his experience he sees women capable of exercising leadership, and through cross pollination surmises that given equal training and equal capabilities, there should be little to nothing wrong with a woman being in a position of leadership in the Church; excited by his new theological thought process he enthusiastically announces at bible study that he believes in womens’ ordination. His bible study leader John is perturbed, and after a bit of quick Googling he discovers that the strain of theology that espouses this is commonly labelled as Egalitarian, and reading on he quickly prepares a bible study for the next week dealing with the subordination of the Trinity. Bob on the other hand still believes in an orthodox exposition of the subordination of the Trinity.

    Now this example is admittedly a bit far fetched, but the use of labels to classify and segregate in- and out-groups is common, even within the Church, and can have disastrous consequences; and its not just the quick Complementarian and Egalitarian descriptors which are bandied around. Reformed, Evangelical, Arian, Modalism, and thousands more are slapped on people regularly, even if they may not hold all of those beliefs; and whether we intend it or not  these labels are quick to cause division within the Church.

    So what should we be doing about it? Before we consider that perhaps its worth considering two existing outcomes of it. Firstly one area that I have lived in has, either consciously or unconsciously, decided to prioritise the unity of the Church over individual differences, and therefore very few people have opportunities to talk about controversial issues, which are inevitably the issues that end up gaining a label, and dividing the Church. As much as that may appear healthy, the suppression of discourse commonly leads towards dissension and fracture anyway, and so it is likely to be counterproductive in the longer term.
    The other end of the spectrum in my experience is an area where these sort of issues are on the table at all times, discourse and even support of a label or position is even encouraged. Unfortunately while fleeing from suppression and fostering discourse the opposing situation has become as fractured as a vase brutally discarded, and subsequently labels are thrown around with little to no pastoral regard for their consequences.

    What then is the solution? I, for one, don’t know for certain; I do know however, as with many solutions, lies somewhere between the two opposites which I have experienced, and for each individual the ideal is likely to be different. Perhaps the better question is how we can foster an environment which is non-judgemental and divisive within our churches?
    Anyone have any ideas or feedback?

  • Finding a Gospel Home

    Finding a ChurchAs part of moving cities there is always a lot of change which goes along with it. For many the prospect of a new city bears the stress of being away from family and friends, and the challenge of finding new friends to be in community with. However, for Gill and I, as we have no flesh and blood family in Adelaide the bigger focus is on finding a new community of believers to be a part of, and to really share life with.
    In doing this move I have been challenged several times, by friends and by God, as to what I/we consider of most importance in a church, and what aspects can be left by the wayside. As such I have just jotted some of these thoughts down, not necessarily in order of priority, into this post.

    1. Bible believing
    First and foremost is a simple one, we were after a church which handled the bible well, one which treated it seriously as the word of God. Pretty simple, right. Now I know that within this category there is a fair spectrum of churches, but if they get the basics right, its a good start.

    2. Community focused
    A big part of what we believe goes into a church is the community. We are keen to get integrated into a community quickly so that we can keep on building the community and doing life together. It’s pretty important to us that we go to a church where community is a focus, both for the building up of believers and as an avenue of welcoming others into the Christian family.

    3. Serving together
    The job of living for Jesus is not just the job of those people who get paid to do it. The bible is pretty clear that in becoming Christians we are all to take up our cross and follow Him. We are keen to be a part of a community that emphasises the responsibility of all of us to serve together, not just paid people to do the majority of the serving.

    4. Evangelistic
    We believe that the church is one of the main tools God uses to spread the news of himself around the place. So we’re keen to be a part of a church that is keen to reach out to the local community to tell people about Jesus.

    5. Messy
    We are pretty aware that Christians are not perfect. But sometimes churches like to look perfect in order to attract people. We are keen to be a part of a church that is full of human beings who are happy to share life together even if that means not having the perfect service layout, flashy music team and smiles on everyone’s face. It also means that we might be able to see how we can fit in a bit more easily.

    We have been pleased to find a church in Melbourne that has all of these elements and more. There are heaps of great churches in Melbourne, but we have decided to be a part of the community at St Matthews in Prahran. It is a great community of believers and a place where we feel that we can be involved in the work that God is doing. We have enjoyed getting to know some of the members over the past few weeks and have already had a few invigorating discussions with the minister Shane. This week we will be joining a gospel community, which is a smaller group of people who meet together and aim to do life together. We are excited about the way God is working at St Matts and praying that he will use us there.

    What do you guys value in churches, and what would you be looking for in choosing? Pop your thoughts in the comments below.